Saturday, 2 August 2025

40. CHILDREN - Japa Empowerment - Empowering Immigrants - Immigrant Empowerment - Jack Lookman - Rita Nnamani - Olayinka Carew - Ire o

40. CHILDREN - Japa Empowerment - Empowering Immigrants - Immigrant Empowerment - Jack Lookman - Rita Nnamani - Olayinka Carew - Empowerment And Inspiration - Nigerian Immigrants - Empowering And Inspiring Generations - Nijaa To United Kingdom - Jack Lookman Limited - Baba Londoner - Nijaa To London - Baba London 


Raising children in the UK as a Nigerian immigrant demands forethought.  Your children are growing up in a very different culture than the one you were raised in.  That's not a bad thing, but it means you have to be deliberate.  If you don't actively teach kids your ideals, the world will teach them something else.  Leave nothing to chance when it comes to identity, discipline, and religion.


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Your child may not speak Yoruba, Igbo, or Hausa.  They may not understand the concept of respect as we define it back home.  But this does not imply you should give up.  You can instil strong values like kindness, respect, hard effort, and family loyalty without being overwhelming.  It is not about importing Nigerian culture mindlessly.  It is about translating it wisely.  Raise global citizens who understand who they are.


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Also, be prepared for emotional turmoil.  Your youngster may question your beliefs or suffer with racism, bullying, or identity issues.  Do not quiet them.  Listen.  Guide them.  Create safe areas in which kids can speak to you without fear.  If you dismiss their struggles or ignore the generational divide, someone else will fill the void and not always with positive influence.


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Get involved in their life.  Show up for school events.  Know their friends.  Guide their digital lives.  If you're too busy hustling and distant from their lives, they'll drift apart from you.  And once the bond is destroyed, it's difficult to repair.  Be present physically, emotionally, and culturally.


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Finally, lead by example. Your children are watching how you deal with money, marriage, stress, faith, and ambition. Don't only preach; model.  Let them witness integrity in action.  Allow them to feel both affection and punishment in harmony. You did not come to the UK solely to survive. You came to raise a better generation than your own. Don't pass up that chance.




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Thank you very much for your time. 


This is Olayinka Carew aka Jack Lookman signing off. 


Ire o (I wish you blessings)


Ire kabiti (I wish you loads of blessings).


Could you make a donation to sustain the great work we do?



Thank you for your contribution: Rita Nnamani


Youtube channel: Jack Lookman  


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  • Being Organised
  • Jack’s Mindset 
  • Jack’s Mentoring 101  (18+ only)
  • Jack’s Undergraduate Empowerment 
  • Jack’s Life Lessons For Teenagers 
  • Business Collaboration With Jack Lookman (18+ only)
  • Book A Chat With Jack Lookman 
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  • Basic Affiliate Marketing Course 
  • Etc.

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Jack’s Empowerment and Inspiration


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39. CHILD CARE - Japa Empowerment - Empowering Immigrants - Immigrant Empowerment - Jack Lookman - Rita Nnamani - Olayinka Carew - Ire o

 39. CHILD CARE - Japa Empowerment - Empowering Immigrants - Immigrant Empowerment - Jack Lookman - Rita Nnamani - Olayinka Carew - Empowerment And Inspiration - Nigerian Immigrants - Empowering And Inspiring Generations - Nijaa To United Kingdom - Jack Lookman Limited - Baba Londoner - Nijaa To London - Baba London 


If you're moving to the UK with children; or planning to have them—you must plan intentionally for child care.  Don't expect that things will work themselves out.  The system here differs significantly from that in Nigeria.  Everything, from childminders to nurseries and school wrap-around care, must be booked, paid for, and scheduled ahead of time.  This is neither Grandma's house or a neighbour’s fast favour.  It’s regulated, structured, and expensive.


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Child care in the UK can quickly deplete your income if you are not prepared.  Full-time nursery care can cost hundreds of pounds per month, particularly in locations such as London and Manchester.  However, there are scholarships and support programs available—if you know where to search.  For example, the UK government provides 15-30 hours of free childcare each week for three to four-year-olds. Some families are eligible for tax-free childcare support too. Educate yourself. Apply early.


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Balancing work and kids can be difficult, especially when there is little or no family support.  That is why many Nigerian immigrants organise support groups.  Find other parents you trust, and collaborate.  Share school runs.  Take turns babysitting on weekends.  You don't have to accomplish everything alone.  Lean into the community.  It takes a ‘village’, even in the United Kingdom, to care for kids.


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Also, follow child protection laws.  This country does not jeopardise children's welfare.  Never discipline a child in public in the same way you do at home.  recognise your rights, the children’s rights, and most importantly, recognise your boundaries.  Understand the requirements for safety, consent, supervision, and communication.  Your stupidity will not be excused, especially when children are around.


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If you're going to Japa with kids, child care should be part of your plan, not an afterthought.  Prepare early, whether it's for school admissions, learning about local government resources, or creating a day care budget.  It is critical to your mental well-being.  Remember that raising children overseas is different; but with intelligence and organisation, you can do it successfully.




Jack’s Curated Business Ideas 



Jack Lookman’s Social Media 


Great International Money Transfer


Thank you very much for your time. 


This is Olayinka Carew aka Jack Lookman signing off. 


Ire o (I wish you blessings)


Ire kabiti (I wish you loads of blessings).


Could you make a donation to sustain the great work we do?



Thank you for your contribution: Rita Nnamani


Youtube channel: Jack Lookman  


Leveraging artificial intelligence for development



jacksempowerment.com 

  • Courses by Jack Lookman Limited 
  • Being Organised
  • Jack’s Mindset 
  • Jack’s Mentoring 101  (18+ only)
  • Jack’s Undergraduate Empowerment 
  • Jack’s Life Lessons For Teenagers 
  • Business Collaboration With Jack Lookman (18+ only)
  • Book A Chat With Jack Lookman 
  • Jack Lookman’s Courses 
  • Basic Affiliate Marketing Course 
  • Etc.

Jack Lookman’s Empowerment and Inspiration 


Could this inspire kindness and compassion?


jacklookmanlimited.com 

  • Jack Lookman Limited Websites
  • Jack Lookman On Social media 
  • Jack Lookman Paperbacks
  • Jack Lookman’s eBooks 
  • Jack Lookman’s Blogs 
  • Etc.



Jack’s Empowerment


Jack Lookman Limited


Jack’s Life Lessons For Teenagers 


Could you help?


Curated Business Ideas


Jaaloo Puzzles


Jack’s Empowerment and Inspiration


Baby Jaaloo


Yoruba Project


Could you light another candle?


We do Affiliate Marketing and make commissions for every sale, at no additional cost to you.


The change that we aim is generational.


Kindly share this content if it’s beneficial.


At Jack Lookman Limited: Our mission is to Empower and Inspire Generations by leveraging the Internet.