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Expectation management is one of the most important survival skills for anyone planning a Japa. Too many Nigerians arrive in the UK with unrealistic expectations based on Instagram posts, half-truths, or exaggerated family stories. They expect immediate employment, rapid wealth, and an easy transition. What's the reality? Life abroad can be wonderful, but it can put you to the test in unexpected ways. If you fail to moderate your expectations, disappointment can be crushing.
The first thing to recognise is that development here takes time. You may start with jobs you never anticipated doing, live in smaller places than you are accustomed to, and experience cultural changes that may test your comfort zone. That does not imply failure; rather, it indicates that you are laying the groundwork. Expect to work hard, learn new systems, and prove yourself before the big opportunities come.
Expectation management also applies to the family back home. Many people believe that once they travel abroad, they become suddenly wealthy. They will anticipate monthly allowances, large presents, and unending assistance. If you do not set up clear boundaries early on, you will find yourself under pressure, which can impede your own success. Be honest about your situation and what you can really do.
On a personal level, avoid comparing your journey to others. Everyone's journey is unique; some people get lucky, while others go the hard way. If you regularly compare your life to someone else's Instagram account, you will deprive yourself of appreciation for your own achievements.
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Ultimately, managing expectations does not mean lowering your standards; it means aligning your hopes with reality so you can stay motivated without burning out. When you accept that success here is a marathon, not a sprint, you’ll approach your goals with more patience, resilience, and wisdom.
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